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Mental Health America
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Coping with Mental Health

Characteristics of People with Good Mental Health

They Feel Comfortable about Themselves

  • They are not bowled over by their own emotions --by their fears, anger, love, jealousy, guilt or worries
  • They can take life's disappointments in their stride.
  • They have a tolerant, easy-going attitude towards themselves as well as others; they can laugh at themselves.
  • They neither under-estimate nor over-estimate their abilities.
  • They can accept their own shortcomings.
  • They have self-respect.
  • They feel able to deal with most situations that come their way.
  • They get satisfaction from the simple, every day pleasures.

They Feel Right About Other People:

  • They are able to give love and to consider the interest of others.
  • They have had personal relationships that are satisfying and lasting.
  • They expect to like and trust others, and take it for granted that others will like and trust them.
  • They do not push people around, nor do they allow themselves to be pushed around.
  • They can feel they are a part of a group.
  • They feel a sense of responsibility to their neighbors and fellow men.

They Are Able to Meet the Demands of Life:

  • They do something about their problems as they arise.
  • They accept their responsibilities.
  • They shape their environment whenever possible; they adjust to it whenever necessary.
  • They plan ahead but do not fear the future.
  • They welcome new experiences and new ideas.
  • They make use of their natural capacities.
  • They set realistic goals for themselves.
  • They are able to think for themselves and make their own decisions.
  • They put their best effort into what they do, and get satisfaction out of doing it.